How to know where to improve in the bedroom
A sort of embarrassing sticking point has come up recently.Because I get post nut clarity and was only able to hookup with average looking women before finding PWF,I used to have a lot of one night stands.I am 25 and have never had a GF or long term FWB.Recently, while I have improved with closing,most women I meet haven’t reached out to meet again or seem apathetic when I reach out again.With the semi neat guy I am,I know it isn’t a hygiene thing.Every time,I try to go down on the girl focusing on the clit ,be dominant,and etc. apparently, I’m doing something wrong.How do I find out what it is and how can I fix this?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Are the girls actually having orgasms? The easiest way would be to have a booty call or GF who you can ask for feedback. That's how I learned a lot. Also, there are some good tutorials on pornhub which are very detailed
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Do research!!! There are a ton of fantastic PWF articles on the site written by Indian PE that explain in-depth, the right things to do, the wrong things, common mistakes, and so on. Would highly recommend giving them a read and going from there - (https://www.playingfire.com/category/tinder-guides/) - most of them aren't on the bedroom but if you scroll you'll find them.
The second thing I recommend doing is after you meet a girl for the second or third time, be honest with her and just ask bro. It might be a little awkward at first but it's definitely worth it to hear a girl's perspective on these things, have patience and humility!
Goodluck bro
14 Posts (+7), 32 Cmts (+13)
I wish I could help, but I'm even more hopeless (1 time got her in the bedroom, but then didn't even have the balls to do more than touch her hair).
I'll watch this thread with avid curiosity to see what others say.
10 Posts (+3), 21 Cmts (+6)
Yeah Adam once said:
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Abundance Escalation no confidence :Guy who dates ugly girls
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