I'm in a one sided open relationship. Only condition is my gf wants me to keep it on the DL so she can feel like she's the only one. My biggest worry is using my phone near her. While she'd never go prying in there, if she just happens to glance over my shoulder when I'm using WhatsApp/texts, she'd see texts from other girls. I also worry about handing her my phone to show her something because I might get an incoming text from some girl. While I'm technically allowed, it'd make her feel bad and would bring a ton of unnecessary drama.

I want to be able to use my phone freely when I'm with her. I don't like having something to hide. I've already disabled notifications to some extent, but wondering if there's a more robust solution. I'm sure I'm not the first in this situation, so I wonder if anyone has any tips?