How to keep in a FB or FWB zone
1st date at my place plus wine. Had good sex, made her cum many times.
Ghosted her for a few days after, didn’t know better at the time lol but I managed to salvage it.
2nd date- unexpected she calls me for a booty call at 3am after leaving a party
3rd date- invited her to my place Saturday evening, said she was out at the casino and I could join. Figured wth I got no plans and so I went. We had fun then back to my place and dicked her down good that night and in the morning.
I’m not trying to lead her on for a relationship but her constant puppy dog eyes that night might’ve felt otherwise.
Screenshots are from yesterday and today she hit me with a “wyd” text. I know where this is going lol
I tend to give off this relationship vibe with girls after we hit it off. I just want to keep it casual, don’t mind hanging out and having fun but not trying to take it further. What should I do?
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Just continue meeting up with her in person. She clearly loves the sex. If she is really looking for something serious won't be able to control herself and she will ask something in the likes of "So what exactly are you looking for?" or "So, what do you think about us?"
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Well, that's not always possible with every girl. I think avoiding doing date type of activities and keeping the hangout sessions limited to her coming over is one of the most important things you can do. Also, not constantly texting her back but maybe limiting it to only few times a day is another idea. I'm not saying you should ghost her or anything but probably texting back nonstop all day isn't a good idea
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Best way to approach is to not bring it up, but to just play it like you want it. Don't invite her out with friends, don't go out with HER friends. Stick to intimate, exclusive hang outs.
No fancy dinners or crazy travel adventures. She'll either fall into your frame and intentions or she'll bring it up and ask about it
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See her once a week or less, see other women, don't act like a boyfriend
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Pretty much yeah
Don't do her favors you wouldn't do to some random person
Don't get lovey dovey with her
Keep conversations sexual and flirty
If she pops the relationship question just say you like things to evolve naturally so let's see how things play out without any labels