How To Get A Girl To Invest (Example)?
I met this girl in a cold open - she was very receptive and very willing to provide her number. Her schedule is terrible and she just got a 2nd job, so it's going to be hard to get her out. One key thing I've learned in reviewing the lessons is that you have to get the girl to invest in the conversation. I do not know how to do this. Using this conversation, what are ways I can get her to invest. She barely responds (maybe lack of interest or could be working 2 jobs) and my baiting test ("I know what you're ready for") seems to not engage. What are other things I can test?
(MONDAY)
Her: Hey it's Ashley
Me: You're shy at first but when you feel connected you open
Her: That's definitely me š
Me: Yes.. what's your schedule like this week?
Her: I have a Zoom job interview in two days but that's about it
Her: Hopefully starting my 2nd job this week
Me: Feeling spontaneous?
Her: Depends on your definition of spontaneous
Me: You, me, laughing, and a nostalgic view
Her: Ohhh I love the sound of that
Me: Cool, let's meet at the view at 10p
Her: I work nights and my shift starts at 10
Me: Life is hard
Her: It can be
(THURSDAY)
Me: It's Thursday
Her: Hey sir happy Thursday
Me: Get the job?
Her: Find out today
Me: You should have told them you were a [inside joke]
(FRIDAY)
Her: I GOT THE JOB
Me: We should celebrate when I return
Her: Most definitely should
(MONDAY)
Me: I know what you're ready for
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Thanks; I did forget to add on the first day of texting (Monday), we had already discussed meeting in person one day that week, so without that context it does seem like a jump to get her schedule without knowing if she was open to meet that week or if it had been discussed.
I have watched your video about 4 examples of cold open text game (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO5T8MtuL_Q). On soft closes, are these examples of soft closes:
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Yes, those are examples of soft closing. But, they are the prelude to a soft close. A soft close isn't necessarily one line. It can be multiple texts. I'll do that sometimes to really make the close extra smooth as you saw in that video