How to continue the conversation from here as I really want to see this girl
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Hi community, so in a bit of a situation here.
I met this girl at a mutual friend’s birthday party on Saturday. We talked for about 10-15mins. I could not be too flirty as it was a common setting and didn’t want to rush it around my friends watching. She is from Greece and we discussed about which islands to visit for next summer, what she does for her cancer research and how she’s finding London in general.
I sent her this message the next day and think about replying a bit differently to how’s your day going. I then sent her a picture of me and my friends in the living room recording a video with lights and boom poles. But she liked my message and just left it there. I really want to see her again but don’t want to sound desperate. How should I proceed?
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You could say: Ah 2024, where heart emoji counts as response
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Should I call her out immediately on the second text? Like shouldn't I be supplementing that with a general question like how's your week been to continue the flow of conversation. Because I tried the risky text by asking her what her definition of nice is and she didn't reply.
Also thinking of texting her after a few days. Otherwise, it might seem like she's been on my mind the whole day. What do you think??
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So, first thing that jumps out is that youre investing a lot more into the convo than her. You definitely dont want to be double + triple texting. For example, for your opener, you could've just said "it was nice meeting you, howd the rest of your evening go"
Also, you didnt make your last message easy to respond to . The best thing you can do now is wait at least 3 or 4 days , post some dope stories and then reengage by replying to one of her stories.
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Thanks for the reply man! I understand what you're saying. The only thing is she doesn't post much stories/posts. Her last post was in summer 2023. So replying to her story would be a long time, not even sure when. I was anyway thinking of waiting 3-4 days and then say something like "Liking this message seems illegal. did you get up to any fun this week?". What do you think?