How to continue here. Girl rejected me. Reaches out back
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I will add the screenshots here, so it makes sense.
Basically I hung out with this girl for a while, and realized she ́s my type after a while and asked her out, rejected me month and a half ago. Not in a direct way, but indirect, I never got a straight no in person. I tried flirting after that, and moving it forward, she would play dumb or ignore or dismiss it. I started ignoring her and after 3 weeks, she reached out asking why am I ignoring her?
I told " am not. Why would it bother you?"
To which she responded "Because I didn ́t do anything for you to do so..." etc. Here we reconnected here just for 2-3 exchanges.
Next day, I see that I am added to the close category of friends in her insta story for some reason, I see the green outline around her profile. I watch her story and don ́t react.
Next day, I am sharing this story from this other girl, who is my partner and who posted how we won a championship in dancing competition (it ́s my hobby and what I do). And then she reaches out saying congrats...
The thing is, I am out my town now and will be for couple of weeks and she seems to want to reconnect, but don ́t know how to play the long game, I was never good at it...Like I want to keep it low investment, nothing too persuasive, not saying anything that fits her agenda etc. Just keeping it alive. So I should post stories definitely, but what about text game?
What ́s the best way to proceed and answer? Thank you
"Thank you" and see what she responds. Also, it matters how she rejected you.
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This was my respond. She sent 3 videos explaining the situation....what she's doing, her new job, occupation etc.
This is already at risk of getting back into the platonic conversation and I want to distance myself from that as much as possible. I remember telling her about my past experience with girls, but never being man to woman with her in person...Is it weird if I tease now and try to make it m2w? Or should I play it cool and invite her out....Like haven't been in these situation
The thing is also, she knows me and already slept over in my place on the couch 2 times...
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Alex has a video or two on playing the long game, so you can benefit from watching those. Just search on youtube
Aside from that, I think just general advice on here : banter, keep it light and flirty/sexual but also you can mix it with (slightly) serious stuff so you're not always on either funny or serious mode
And also (still general advice) don't develop one-itis/get clingy by still meeting new girls. I'm surprised i don't see that term (one-itis) being thrown around so much anymore, but that shit is real
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Went really low key...
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You could answer her question about your trip home as a way to take the conversation into more flirtyness- talk about some desirable/envious potentially romantic activities you happen to be doing and see if she bites and gives you "i wish i was there" energy.






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Well this girl can be an attention seeker or she is playing hard to get to see if u are persistent or not and are determined to get something etc. The choice is yours if u wanna continue this or not and about text game just engage her with your stories and flirting texts
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I will engage and see how it goes simply and probe, all you say makes sense
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Yea it's definetley a bit of a red flag when a girl starts chasing you like this only after you stop giving her attention