Hi guys, this may sound conceited, but I have a weird problem

Girls become insanely attached to me.

This has happened 3 times in a row now. with 2 of them being pretty severe. These aren't even girls who are regularly clingy. I won't go over it in detail, but last gf basically tried to kill herself when our relationship was on the rocks and says she still loves me. I know thats an outlier. She's getting treatment and she's doing alright now.

Another girl who could basically have any guy it was the same thing. She became super attached and came over un announced and confessed her love and even implied we'd have good children. Professional career type western woman, it was weird, maybe she had bipolar disorder. I don't know, her behaviour was so weird and she started acting as attached as my last ex and I ended it because it was too much too fast.

Same with newest girl recently. FWB for 2 months, finally felt like I had something "normal" then she revealed that she was moving away for work a few hours away, I basically told her well nice knowing you, and she flipped out. Was hoping I'd fall in love with her by that point and that I'd be willing to do long distance. She confessed she lied about being ok with FWB and was playing it cool outwardly but had burning love. She kept sending me text bombs about her love for me and sending me food delivery and care packages, I ended up telling her to stop contacting me cause it felt like stalker situation

all 3 girls had high smv and no previous history of acting like this afaik, my SMV itself is not super high but I get 9.0 on photo feeler easily enough. but they also get attached maybe because I make a lot of money, have a powerful political job that has big implications for my country, I'm a great cook, good lover (2 of these girls have said I was their best ever by far) etc.

Its not like every girl, but it happens after they get to know me. I also have a hard time not being overly caring and compassionate and girls try to lock me down and things never stay casual and get intense fast.

I have a psych and she basically told me they are getting attached to me because in her words, I'm a really good catch and I'm letting them know too much about myself too soon and that I should take things a lot slower with girls and focus a lot more on screening needy women even if it means taking things slow for weeks or months. But I already screen needy women, all these girls seemed aloof for the first while that I was texting them.

I literally have a fear of women now, apart from the things I mentioned, what should I do?

Or idk, I could simply be subconciously seeking out mentally unstable women, I just don't know.