Been texting girl, we made plans for today and two days before I was giving one word shit response answers. Later on I used the accusing method and called her basic. She finally end up addressing the concern that she is going through rough time and idk how to reframe it from here
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Kinda need more context, but your response seems like it’s lacking empathy, it’s okay to call a girl out on facts, but “now I see why you got into smoking” is judgements and makes you come across as butt hurt. Which can scare a girl off because how will you act further down the road if things are more serious, that is why abundance mentality needs to be practiced, so one situation doesn’t get you that upset
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We went to the same hs and have common friends. Her ex used to be my friend. We ft for 2-3 hours a night before the date and then she got pissy. I’m hoping for a chance but I feel it’s a dead case
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118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
Try being more empathetic, hear her out, maker feel understood, sounds like she really is in a tough spot and it could even be she didn’t wanna be around you while she’s feeling sad/mad, you have to open her up before the date to get her optimistic the date will be fun, rn she gets the vibe she’s not allowed to feel her feelings and she will get shit for it, nothing about the texts you’ve sent are vibing in a good direction or at least neutral, it’s very confrontational, at this point you want to empathize and try to lighten her up, then give gentle nudges toward meeting up again, remember she’s just one girl, don’t get too hung up over it. I have a smoking hot neighbor that I met and was In my room the first night and we didn’t smash, she is actually how I found out about PWF, trying to get over her, and thankfully it worked, I still never got to smash her but at least I don’t get anxiety and longing for her like I did before. And I’ve been smashing other girls just as hot
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yeah man. This one is probably not gonna go anywhere. you can message her something like "No worries. Feeling a bit better now I hope". But really, in situations like this all you can do is show empathy and wait for her to get into a better state
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Саша, выручай 😭
8 Posts (+9), 20 Cmts (+4)
God damn, and it was a hs crush too.... Will see if it’s fully dead or nah because she invested a lot and just died down on me and I had to just dig