How do I respond and close this?
I matched with this girl on tinder and we been texting and we set up a wine & a movie date at her place because I don’t have my own spot. And she was for it then she starts getting worried. I don’t know how to close this out. Any good response and tips?
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IMO, when she said she was unsure you made the assumption she was backing out on you instead of asking her what her hesitations were. I think you were a bit too aggressive about pushing her to meet up. I would reset and build some more rapport then go for the close after that.
You and me splitting a bottle of wine. Cuddles, neck kisses. Whisper cute stuff to each other, building chemistry. If we like each other I’d grab you face by gripping your hair. Bring it close and only let our lips touch but not kiss. You begging for it, to feel that kiss.
Lols stop copying pasting lines. This is not the time to sexualise. The girl obviously has a concern about this being just a hookup/there being expectations. The line itself I'm not a fan of, even though I have gotten laid off it in the past, it works only on a subset of girls. A lot of girls would find this too cheesy/gamey.
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Something along the lines of “enjoy a nice evening with drinks. Get to know each other. See how the chemistry is. I like to let things unfold naturally. No expectations on my end.”