"How trashy are we talking "

Idk the full context here. But, I'm not seeing anything in "Over eager" territory. I would think in more terms like this. Has a girl invested a little bit in the convo. Is she writing out longer messages. Is she asking you questions. Is she hinting at a meet up? Is she flirting. If she is investing, then go for the close. If not, then build a little more investment. Don't worry so much about the over eager thing