Home date with date , and her friend and another dude ?
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So I invited this Tinder girl home to "dance salsa". She seemed down for it. But then asked if she could bring a friend. I was thinking "threesome" straight away. But now she asking if it is okei if her(extremely hot) girlfriend brings another dude, a "friend".
I` m not sure how to deal with this. At first I thought she wanted me to bring a friend for her girlfriend, but that was not the case. So optimal case for me would be to have her alone, second best to have her friend there and try for 3some, but what the fuck am I gonna do with this strange guy ?
I mean I do have facilities to entertain guests; a large penthouse with outdoor jacuzzi with room for 4 people...so maybe it could be fun. On a sidenote I also have a "tinder couple" that I added to snapchat a while ago. They are like into orgies and 3somes and whatever. Maybe I should just get them over as well, make the chaos complete. What do you all think??
I'd probably say that it sounds fun but you'd like to just get to know her the first time around. To me it sounds like if you told her about the penthouse already that she's potentially taking advantage of that by bringing friends which means she can ignore you and just spend time with them. That's worst case scenario, but it honestly just depends on how the conversation looked up to this point. Is this a clear as day hookup? Are you just hanging out? Depending on that and how comfortable you are hanging with a group of strangers it might be a good idea, but I personally wouldn't want anyone but my date coming over
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Not really a clear hookuo..but when girls come HOME TO ME ALONE I usually hookup..but this is more chaos
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I would say "no" to all of that for now. Simply tell her "I want to hang out with you, not your friends". Don't be afraid to say what you think.