Seems like a complete time waster to me.. Next!

I’ve found that once a girl starts to put up resistance to your soft close she’s just not high interest and probably on there just for pen pals.

yeah man i always talk about not trying to do to many things at once, this is the reason for that, you want the banter building and the soft close to be seperate. Not one after another, at this point shes giving you a little bit of shit and i think its important to address that, "are you saying i might be boring"