This might be long.

So matched with girl on tinder over a month ago. Barely chatted on tinder and she then she moved it to snap, cool whatever. She sucks at texting with words and basically only sends pictures. So I kind of got bored but then thought fuck it and asked if she was a fan of drinks and set up a date with her. Chatted on phone night before to build comfort. We have the public date, some flirting, then brought her to private hangout spot on water, chilled in car, watched some shit, finally made move by end, some cuddling and makeout before we left and after we got back. Feels good to make a move honestly, was hard to judge her mood, she plays very hard to get so I thought she was uninterested, but said fuck it and it was worth it.

She still had low investment after that however. Setup next date but she had a bad migraine apparently, who knows if legit. Said ok no worries we'll reschedule. Chatted on phone few days later, we said Monday could work. Ok, Monday comes around, I try to confirm, she can only do ice cream (public date) and not late. Yeah fuck that. I try to smooth say I have ice cream at mine plus some barefoot wine (she said she had liked it before). Then basically got ghosted for day, re-open her next day, she replies she's going through some stuff, I say something like ok what kind of stuff, and she has ghosted until this message (1 week).

Not sure how to reply, how to change her mind or comfort her when she's going through personal things, without crossing her boundaries?