Hi I guess I messed up with early closing and bit gamey at end. As she said oh snap and I misread in optimistic way. I don't think she is gonna send her number. Any way to still turn it around? What other mistakes that you think I have done here?
I was thinking...
"Of course our romantic date silly"
Or
"Do I sense hesitation"
Man a lot of your texts could easily be cut into shorter texts. & Your grammar/texting fuck ups is really making you lose points in my opinion
- You: It has been amazing but crazy
Played tennis, went shopping, and now drinking a wine in my romantic patio
How about you?
“Good, just finished playing a bit of tennis. Sipping some wine on my romantic patio. Hbu?”
This gets all three of your texts across in one. I recommend watching all of Alex’s live text game demonstrations
- You: “Wine could test even better if “Teddi” is next to me”
“Always room for one more 😏” Or you could've said "Damn. Sounds like you could use a little stress relief" & then she'd agree & then go with “Well, theirs always room for one more 😏” to see if she would bite on that. & then if she did "My kinda girl. You feeling spontaneous tonight?"
& Bam it could've possibly gone down but who knows
That's how I would've played it
I definitely think you could’ve capitalized on this. You did a weird “bar soft close” No idea why you’re trying to do a public date when this girl seemed like she would’ve easily been down to come straight over
I’m also not a fan of number closing without having made concrete plans over the app first. Day & time.
For now, you can just go with anything
- “Don’t be shy”
- “Don’t think too hard now
Give it a couple of days though
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She unmatched. I must have given power away but good suggestions. Thank you!




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give it a few days then hit her with "if your too nervous , I'd understand"