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Hi I guess I messed up with early closing and bit gamey at end. As she said oh snap and I misread in optimistic way. I don't think she is gonna send her number. Any way to still turn it around? What other mistakes that you think I have done here?

I was thinking...
"Of course our romantic date silly"
Or
"Do I sense hesitation"

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avilench . Avatar

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give it a few days then hit her with "if your too nervous , I'd understand"

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Carlos C Avatar

307 Posts (+139), 379 Cmts (+32)

Man a lot of your texts could easily be cut into shorter texts. & Your grammar/texting fuck ups is really making you lose points in my opinion

  1. You: It has been amazing but crazy
    Played tennis, went shopping, and now drinking a wine in my romantic patio
    How about you?

“Good, just finished playing a bit of tennis. Sipping some wine on my romantic patio. Hbu?”

This gets all three of your texts across in one. I recommend watching all of Alex’s live text game demonstrations

  1. You: “Wine could test even better if “Teddi” is next to me”

“Always room for one more 😏” Or you could've said "Damn. Sounds like you could use a little stress relief" & then she'd agree & then go with “Well, theirs always room for one more 😏” to see if she would bite on that. & then if she did "My kinda girl. You feeling spontaneous tonight?"

& Bam it could've possibly gone down but who knows

That's how I would've played it

I definitely think you could’ve capitalized on this. You did a weird “bar soft close” No idea why you’re trying to do a public date when this girl seemed like she would’ve easily been down to come straight over

I’m also not a fan of number closing without having made concrete plans over the app first. Day & time.

For now, you can just go with anything

  • “Don’t be shy”
  • “Don’t think too hard now

Give it a couple of days though

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36 Posts (+3), 75 Cmts (+4)

She unmatched. I must have given power away but good suggestions. Thank you!

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idk, i feel like you should’ve tried to reset/reframe after that exchange on martin garrix. maybe go for a takeaway at this point. something like “if you’re too nervous, i’d understand”?

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