As you can see from my consecutive posts, I’ve been having a bad streak lately
Anyway, screenshots speak for themselves. In hindsight she was pretty receptive and I should’ve just liked her message saying she’ll let me know, and just reopen her the following week
Any ideas on how to handle this line for future use ?
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She seems like a nightmare man. But also, you still insinuated a date even though she told she will let you know
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The conversation is dead, just move on. You should’ve did what you said and liked it and or waited the next day to reopen. My thing is, not to close for the date too soon. It’s best to be patient and wait until she close for the date. To get that to happen you have to set up situations for her to close for the date. Be patient, be at her pace but still have control of the conversation because that lets her know you’re listening to her while still remaining dominant. When she said that she had a shoot on the 5th you should’ve been like “ok, that’s fine, tell me how it goes” or “that’s fine, let me know when you’re not busy” just to let her know that you’re not in a rush to see her because that shows that you’re in abundance. After she said that she was honest about rescheduling and that she doesn’t want to go out anymore you folded, you should’ve just said, “that’s fine, I’m not butt hurt” or you could’ve just said, “can I get on the phone with you for 1-2 minutes?” That’s all, I hope that helps. @avilench .
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Thanks for the reply gents. The invitation to get on the phone to talk it out is golden, wish I could've thought of that earlier. Oh well, on to the next
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Yeah, he has a video on how to talk to a girl on a phone. That’s why I brought it up, whenever a girl is about to flake on you or loses interest in you through a text, just use a phone call to reengage her.
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In this context it reads as an accusation, because of this it signals low value since it makes it seem that you’re insecure as well as someone who gets flaked on commonly.
In regards to future use, keep in the non-serious parts of the interactions aka playful banter. Not in closing or logistical phases.
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Gotcha, thanks for the advice man. At the time I genuinely just meant it as a rib, but I can see how that can get easily lost in translation over text. And I do remember now Alex said the same thing (i.e. no more funny business when it comes to closing/logistics). Ah hindsight
But I meant specifically, how do you guys handle that particular line i.e. i'll let you know ? This is such a common thing I come across
You guys recommend I reopen in a week or two, or take an L/unfollow already ?
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Bro, I’m really new to text game. Only started this shit a week ago. But in this particular case. You can either be normal like say “Ok, great” or some shit that has 0 traces of game and can’t be misinterpreted. What I would say is something like “You better be excited” or “prepping the wine” or if you’re already being pretty kinky over text you can say “Great, fetching the handcuffs” I like all these replies because they rely on a predetermined conclusion that the date will take place. Which in my opinion shows that you usually get dates or some shit.