393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Your soft close is poor. You were better off asking "Okay. What evenings are you free next after Saturday?" is what I'd have said
"Don't think too hard now" for now
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
That Sunday @ 5 wasn’t established on the date was it?
Assuming so, to text her “great let’s meet Sunday @ 5” isn’t a good idea. Throwing around random days/times is ineffective (to include your Monday text as well).
You should have just said “great, what’s your schedule like” and then proceed from there.
Don’t worry, just let the time pass and if she doesn’t reply throughout Monday hit her with a poking message to remind her after 2-3 days. It was a bit needy for sure instead you could have asked her what evenings she was free. Just do that next time
35 Posts (+6), 52 Cmts (+8)
You think I should even try texting again ?
1 Post (+0), 16 Cmts (+9)
I like the "how's my busy girl doing" suggestion someone said earlier, maybe a detail referencing something from your date
Should wait a few more days tho imo. Right now with the holidays kinda a hard time.
how did the first date go in detail? did you pull to your place to make out? did you try going for the close?
35 Posts (+6), 52 Cmts (+8)
I picked her up and we went to a coffee shop. We stayed there talking for around 2 hrs. I don’t have a separate place currently so I usually take girls to this area that kinda abandoned with a waterfall, mountain, train tracks. She was down to go there after. While we were at the waterfall I kissed her. Later when we were in the car at first she said when we weren’t gonna make out when I said this song is a make out song but then we ended up making out while passing these mints back and forth for like 30 mins.
21 Posts (+8), 174 Cmts (+37)
Don't write stuff like "I had a great time. etc.. Would love to get together..." Even though it's honest, it can make you seem seem too available and invested. Also, don't suggest a specific day to meet. Ask, "How's your schedule looking for a drink?" Also, don't be in the position of her letting you know. That puts you in a passive position. If she says she'll let you know, say, "Sounds like your're busy. We'll do it another time. I'll text you and we'll set something up." YOU TAKE CONTROL.
35 Posts (+6), 52 Cmts (+8)
This is solid advice. Anything I should say/do now? Just planning on not texting again
21 Posts (+8), 174 Cmts (+37)
If she doesn't get back to you, wait a few days at least and then reopen her. E.g., "How's my busy lady doing?" or something like that.