Hi I did a search on the forum but couldn’t find a thread answering this, basically girl is refusing to come straight to house and wants to meet outside for a walk “in case you’re a psycho”.
Any tips for handling this? Thanks
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"I'm giving up being a psycho for Lent"
"Just bring your pepper spray it'll be fine"
ideal is to call her and objection handle over the phone and tease out why she is concerned
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And I’m not sure if “I understand if you’re nervous” is the right one for this
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yeah man, thats definitely normal, over 50% also want to meet in public first, usually a safety thing. Theres no way your gonna text game them into ignoring their concern and coming straight over, at least not often, i would typically respond with something like "yeah we can meet at a nearby first" or replace bar with walk