Girl Doesn’t Bite on Ryan Gosling
Daytime cold approach - solid conversation where I could tell she was into me through her eye contact. I reached out the same night with “Name from location ;)” she said “Hey name from location”. I didn’t respond till the next day mid afternoon, where I sent the Gosling Happy Tuesday. Should I follow up with something like a “Don’t be shy” or “If you’re too nervous i’d understand”, or “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flaky type” because I genuinely didn’t.
Yea I think she’s not answering because it’s like you restarted the conversation. Plus if this was today I’d wait a little longer before saying anything. I wouldn’t go with “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type” because it can come across as being butthurt, and I’ve made this mistake before. Thats better as a last resort type thing after you’ve had a conversation with her. “If you’re too nervous I’d understand” doesn’t work either because it doesn’t really fit in the context; it’s like saying she’s too nervous to text you. That’s better if you’re talking about plans.
“Don’t be shy” sounds good, but I would wait to see what other people comment on this post
Really appreciate the input. I was thinking the flaky one is too early too. Although I don’t quite see why the “If you’re too nervous, I’d understand” wouldn’t be good. It’s kinda like if you’re too nervous to communicate with a stranger you found attractive, I’m alright with that. Then she would most likely reach out to defend herself. All in all i’m aware that I’m an overthinker, and it’s definitely best to give her the same amount of time that I took to respond to her (18 hours)
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Your best bet is to let it go and re-engage again a day later with, "Yo sexy"
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Nah man. It's too premature to send those texts. Wait a day or two. And then say something like "How's my favorite <insert something that's specific about her>"
Example: "How's my favorite brazilian" , if she was brazilian
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Makes sense. I already sent the don’t be shy with no response. I feel like the next best thing is “if you’re too nervous i’d understand.” Or “I genuine fidnt take you for the flaky type” Even though we haven’t made plans, but in terms of just texting back and being respectful of my time
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Just by her not texting you back isn't her disrespecting your time. Don't take something simple like that personally