Ghosted - Is this salvageable? WTF

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Hey guys. This situation requires a little bit of general dating advice also.

I went on date with a really cute girl. Just my type physically. I thought it went perfect. She complimented my smell, my fashion, said my face is beautiful, that she really didn't want to leave, etc.
We kissed like three times. Had intense eye contact and she blushed all the time.
She texted me she got home safe and really liked meeting me. I texted her that I liked meeting too and wished her good night.

Two days later I texted her and had a brief playful exchange of like 3 messages before asking her out again. She said "Of course, I want to see you again".
I offered Wednesday or Thursday and we went with Wednesday.

When the day came, I texted her in the morning to tell her we should meet in the same place as before so we could get to the new place together.

She didn't reply. When it was like 5pm I called her and she didn't pick up. So I just sent a "?" Via WhatsApp.

Half hour later she sent a picture of her hand all red, and told me "I'm so sorry, like I told you the other day, I was looking for a job and I had two interviews, when I got home washed so many dishes and I totally forgot we were going to meet today. Look how my hands are.

I just responded with "Oh okay, no worries"

She then texted "I'm really really sorry (and tons of emojis) I really just forgot, sorryyyyyyy"

I said "well, maybe there's a way you can make it up to me" via voice note. She responded with an image of a kid with eyes wide open (Probably thought I meant it sexually). I texted "Well given your reaction I would say we are most likely not thinking the same thing". She said "HAHAHAHA well I can't know until you tell me" . I told her that as mentioned the other day, I could do it Thursday too (next day), after meeting with friends. She asked if we could do it next Wednesday. I asked if she could not do it next day.
She said "I'll let you know tomorrow early, I won't forget this time". I agreed.

Next day she texted me "Hey, is it okay if I just let you know when I'm free the previous day and you tell me if it works for you too? We don't have to go eat or anything, just get together".

At this point, with her forgetting, not offering to reschedule directly, avoiding meeting next day to make it up, trying to postpone a whole week and then leaving it in the air with that "I'll let you know". I just decided to make sure I won't waste time , so I sent a voice note with the most assertive, non butthurt, chill voice that was humanly possible saying "That'd be all right, but first I want to ask you directly if you honestly do feel like hanging out, if you don't want to, that would be completely okay, just let me know".

The voice note appears as if she never played it and she never replied. It's been like 5 days now.
You can do a trick on whatsapp where you can listen to a voice note without leaving it on read, she probably did that. But that changes nothing.

What should I do? I not dumb or delusional, she seemed so so so much into me on our date, one would think she was more into me than me into her.

Should I just wait a couple of weeks for her to reach out? Should I reengage? If that's the case, how?

Can't post screenshots as they are not in english and there's voice notes, but I just detailed everything.

Thanks

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Well I could delete this but maybe it's a good opportunity for other guys to know how unpredictable girls can be. She just texted me she thought I left her on read and had just played my voice note, and that the can meet me whenever I want

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