getting the ball rolling
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Im new to the pick up scene and trying to gain traction. I definitely owe credit for one of my tinder lays to our man Alex here. All that aside im having trouble building attraction on nothing. Should i have said something more like "do you know what i bet ill like the sound of?" She responds " the sound of you moaning to multipul orgasims, im guessing, because this is only if we vibe well" ps my profile is sexual.
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You didnât do anything majorly wrong man. That last text was a bit on the boring side, but it was far from a âdeal breaker textâ. Iâd wait 24 hours and follow up with âSounds excitingâ
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The hypothetical text you proposed is def high risk, that probably wouldnât be my move.
âOh I bet I can think of a few other things youâd enjoy the sound ofâ
âIâll gice you a hint it involves wine & massage oilâ
Slowly escalate
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officially a member. Oookay i excepted that my last text was uncalibrated and too steep too fast. I was going to let it go but her Response to "I'm thinking I'll like the sound of you when i do down to eat your pussy until your legs shake after giving you multipul orgasims" was "oh" ps im starting to read the modules now so that i can contribute to my own "difficult" situations. I hope to be as fluent as you are someday soon
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Haha i remember you saying that but when im sitting here nothing comes to mind but pure logic. Copy and paste ammature rn đđ» were still matched rn but i went all in with matching 6's
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Don't mind me but there's another piece, called 'Devon goes first'. It's good advice for when you want her to disclose personal stuff especially sexual stuff. You disclose first so she knows it's ok.
đ«what drives you wild with sexual ecstasy?
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I'll give you multiple screaming oral orgasms... what else drives you wild with ecstasy?
đ«what are you looking for on here?
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I love not quite kissing... my hand closed through your hair, holding your head, my lips brushing your cheek, you reach to kiss but you're restrained and you want it so bad... what's your idea of an amazing tinder date?
đ«tell me about a time you put an foreign object inside you
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this one time, at band camp, I stuck a flute in my pussy... what's the weirdest thing you've ever masturbated with?
hth
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Fark, that first pic is double trouble
You're doing great with getting the ball rolling sexually, gotta keep it rolling. If you change to a non-sexual subject you'll have to start back up again later which is slightly harder.
When they're playful like this it's fun and you've got plenty of leeway to fuck about. Not like some of these other chats where it's like entering disarm codes into a nuclear bomb.
"I'm thinking I'll like the sound of you when I..." --> "give you multiple screaming orgasms"
"What drives you wild troublemaker?"
"I love those girly sounds you make when you feel amazing pleasure"
"Fair warning, if you get too wild I will use handcuffs"
Should only be used if you want to check whether she might be free tonight. To get back on track:
"Don't change the subject, we were talking about your raging sexuality"
"Cool, just back from the gym, getting jacked for our romantic date"
"Tell me what you wish you were doing"
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Thanks bro ill keep you updatedđ. I have alot to learn đ€