Went on a first date with a hot Asian girl. We met at a bar since she was planning to meet friends later at a club. She didn’t end up meeting her friends as the date was going seemingly well. There was some sexual tension on the date and we made out a bit at the end. But I wasn’t able to fuck. She seemed agreeable to a second date and even mentioned going to her place. I waited a day after the first date and reopen her with “Hey sexy” to try and set up the second date. And she ghosts me...

How should I re-open her? Should I re-open with a mild takeaway at the end of the weekend and just ask “How is your weekend going”. Or should I call out this no response with “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type” (funny enough on the date she said she never ghosts guys, she’ll just tell them how it is, and I was just thinking that’s complete bs)

Update: I didn't message her all weekend and she messaged me this morning basically saying shes no longer interested. Any recommendations to eliminate second date flakes? Is it often that girls bullshit after/during the first date saying they want to see you again when in reality they are just saying that to be nice and the date isn't actually going as well as you think?