FEEDBACK SERIES PART 4

How To Read A Girl’s Mind

Last week we spoke about the benefits of getting feedback from women. Now we will look at how to actually achieve this. How to really get into the girls head to find out what you can do to improve yourself time after time.

It’s obviously an awkward thing to think about. Asking a girl for feedback on how you ‘picked her up’. The thought of this wants us to have a typical reaction to feedback. We want to believe it doesn't work, we want to ignore it and move on.

However, there's an easy way to achieve this that isn't awkward or weird.

First, build up compliance momentum, we have gone through this in previous posts. You must already be open to asking deep;y personal questions. Develop this through the interaction, the most optimal time to ask the very deep questions is after sex when we are at our most open and vulnerable. Next, share and tell her what you enjoyed about sex with her and tell her what she did well.

“Hey, I'm impressed, that was amazing. I really like how you were so expressive”

Now, wait for her to share what she liked or ask her.

“I'm curious, what's one thing you loved the most”

Then ask what she would change or improve.

“Is there anything else you would change or wanted to try”

Now, some of you may be thinking this sounds a little weird or awkward. But it isn't. Hold your frame, say it in a casual relaxed way and it will become normal. It also exudes confidence and puts you in the frame of judging and her performance.

You can talk about sex for as long as you want. This not only makes you better in bed, but the one thing that will improve your sex life with the one girl is communication. Once you understand what each other really like then you will have the most amazing experiences. Of course, once this happens, the girl will ALWAYS want to see you again.

We are just finishing up with our sex coaching by Andrew Mioch. One of the techniques he teaches is
“OPEN YOUR MOUTH”.
He really values the concept of communication and its importance in amazing sex. I will do a full post about the student's experience in the last two days shortly.

Now, once it has been normalised that you can be open and critical with each other you can learn more about your interaction with her.

“Hey, I'm really curious what did you think when you first met me?”

If the girl ever feels uncomfortable answering or gives a basic answer where she is just trying to be nice then remember the principles of compliance hoops.
You can first answer the question yourself or you can lower the compliance threshold. This is just a nerdy way to say; make the question a little bit easier to answer.

Lower Compliance Threshold: “Most people think I'm a dick, I’m just really curious what you thought, you can tell me the truth I think it's cool to talk about”

Now once she answers you can move on to further questions.

“When did you realise you first liked me?” (can change to want to kiss me, want to fuck me, want to get to know me better)

“What is one thing I said that really turned you on / off?”

You can also ask about specific situations that you want feedback on.

“What did you think when I did/ said this”

Now sometimes girls will give very general answers;

“I don't know, I just liked you”

“I kind of felt you were weird when you started kissing me.”

So you will have to explore and give her options.

“Was it weird because it was in front of your friends, or you weren't really sure if you liked me yet?”

Now you can find out if you escalated too quickly or just in the wrong environment or perhaps it was another reason.

This is the process I used to write the reverse field report. I have continued to write them as I think it gives us all a better understanding of female psychology. It's through this process I came to an understanding that it's okay for girls to know now and again that you are “trying to hit on them”. It's also how i understood that it's really important to be socially aware and disqualify sex. Every girl knows she is coming home to have a physical connection with you if you have sexualised the interaction correctly. However, it's still important to make her feel comfortable and provide that space of disqualification. Every mindset and technique we teach here at Ultimate Man Project has not only been rigorously field tested, but we also get feedback from the woman themselves.

I hope these articles will help you search for the criticism and feedback you need to grow and reach your goals.

In our mastermind that opens on Monday, we will be releasing field reports written with the help of the girls. We will also be doing interviews with women to get their female perspective of all things game!

Markus “Mind Reader” Wolf

P.s Thank you for all your kind words, I'm getting better and will be tearing it up again very soon!