Pretty new to this, I failed a LR with this Indian chick that came to my place. I had a FaceTime call with her before which went ok.

Problem:
What do you, if a girl doesn’t maintain eye contact? You close the distance, but when you say touch her she kinda of freezes up. You put hand on thigh, she removes it. You touch her hair, she’s a bit awkward about it. You talk slowly she doesn’t maintain that pace.
So it’s kinda difficult to build any tension, she breaks it quickly with laughter.

What I tried:
I did that’s what she said thing and she laughed most times. But then any physical or verbal escalation didn’t work.
I pointed out her eye contact was bad and she’s very shy. She is like no-no. Not sure if I should have pushed more on this.
I did a few push-pull, like oh then it’s not going to work out btw us. But mostly in a funny vibe. Not sure are you supposed to do in serious vibe?

Conclusion:
Spent like 2 hrs on this stuff. The conversation was pretty ok and flowing though, she laughed at most of my jokes.

Since she’s not comfortable with basic levels, how do I move forward? I tried to touch teeth you have nice teeth and then her lips you have kissable lips. But she’s too shy and stiff in her body language.

In the end, she said going to leave in a few mins. And she left after that.

I think I might be just bad at building comfort and not much smooth in talking.