Chick on bumble (who is 20) opened me with:
Her: Hey name
Me: Hey ;). I like your style
Her: Aww, i haven't hear that one yet.
Her: Thank you.
Me: How was your thirsty wednesday ?
Her: Uneventful and yours ?
Me: Pretty busy, just finished my workout, looking nice and fit for our date ;)
Her: You are very offensive (open or direct i guess) (guess she was reading my profile and found the ''3 things that make a realtionship good'' line (Good communication, Honesty and good sex)
Her: What do you mean by good sex ?
Her: That is very subjective.
Any advice is welcome.
Thanks in advance.
so first off change this your profile prompt to "Honesty, communication and great sex" That will work better.
Second. your response should be "Good sex involves you having multiple screaming oral orgasms."
Or you can go with "hair pulling, ass slapping, choking, blindfolds and you having multiple oral orgasms but make sure we get in some cute cuddles after."
she will probably respond with something like "can't argue with that" or "i agree" if she doesn't you probably blew out this exchange but if shit tests you on being direct. I would just say "well I like to be direct and not waste my or your time. If you are into it then we will click, if not then no worries its not meant to be."
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Already solved my problem thanks to Dan, the concern was that she thought of me as too aggressive (sexually) and with your answer i could have cockblocked myself.
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"Something that has passion, where we can explore our kinks. I can be my dominant self and you can be your submissive self"
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Good sex is when there’s good chemistry so the girl can fully relax and receive 10-15 screaming oral orgasms
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I think the idea is good but the last part is too much.
Remember she is "offended" by him talking about good sex. That's a major red flag to me that she is probably crazy.
But the part about the good chemistry would likely alleviate her concerns. I would make it about the two of you. Good chemistry, so the woman and man simply understand each other etc.