Dilemma with a busy girl (with valid excuses). What to do?
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I've been texting back and forth with this girl for the past 2 months. Already been on one date, went well, and she even made plans of where she wanted to go on our next date. However, our schedules haven't coincided since then because of our school schedules during the week (I met her when we were both on vacation). For example, my only day off is Sundays, and for her, Sundays are days she spends with her family (roadtrips, hikes, etc.). I know she's not lying because she posts IG stories about that every Sunday, so we haven't been able to set up a second date because of that.
What's my next step? I can't do a call out because she hasn't flaked. So is this a matter of "too bad the schedules don't line up, move on" or is there something else I can do?
P.S. Changing my day off isn't an option because my busy hours are due to med school classes and rotations, and those are concrete. (Yes, I even have classes Saturday evenings).
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When you say it went well, do you mean to say you guys had sex?
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No. there was no makeout either. That's more in reference to our vibe, energy, and banter. It did take a while to bring that out of her because she's considered more of the introvert/shy girl.
I didn't kiss her because the night before I had already smashed one of my sides, so my sex drive wasn't really there, but still managed to keep it a bit flirty.
Even without doing that, to describe her enthusiasm towards the end of the date a bit more, the way she set up the second date was "I know of the most amazing place to go to on our next date. It's not too far from here, and it's a much more private picnic place to eat and enjoy ourselves."