Did I screw up

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Pat G Avatar

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Pat G Avatar

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I tried to find out why she had no nye plans but said ...wow no
Not sure if I came off as needy or not

I’m probably just going to wait a week before texting again
Context: we’ve gone on a date before

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C

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I think you overcomplicated the situation, she was probably just busy for NYE and does not have serious concerns against meeting up with you. I would have rescheduled after '.. wow nah'. Reengage in a week seems like the right option.

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Pat G Avatar

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Sounds bout right. What would be a good re engagement txt

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C

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Ryan gosling memes

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avilench . Avatar

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brooo... this was really bad, no offense. Multiple issues here. The biggest one is that you are using takeaways extremely incorrectly. To the point where it doesnt even really make sense. To her or anyone else that's reading screenshots. She just said that she doesnt have plans for new years, why would that be a concern. If you think about it doesnt make no sense. Thats a text you would use if you had invited a girl to hangout with you, and she was being hesitant. Not if you would just ask her what she was doing that night. Secondly, you used the nervous text literally 9 mins after previous text. That is way to soon to double text a girl. i recommend just reading this conversation again and forget about game for a minute and see how little some of your replies make sense. Also check out my video on "how to use takeaways". Hope that helps

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Pat G Avatar

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Appreciate the feedback, I definitely got confused. The concern was she seemed maybe down to hang but said wow nah when I suggested meeting after friends.
How can I recalibrate

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