Critique my last night
Matched w a girl on Bumble, bantered back and forth and set what I thought was a good vibe. She texts me the next day saying its her day off and wants to meet up. I’m a work so tell her let’s meet up after at my house.
She uses the serial killer objection and wants to meet in public which i reply to w the Lent rebuttal and tell her to meet up at a cafe close to me.
She agrees and we meet up and split a bottle of wine and have a great conversation about our lives and some sexual vibing involving skinny dipping.
We are touching each other a lot and by the end of the bottle are making out on the back patio and grabbing her ass. I invite her back to my house to go skinny dipping in my pool to which she replies that she knows where that will lead to and I didn’t know how to overcome it so she ends up leaving in her car but says she wants to come by after work one day to go skinny dipping before she left.
It’s now the day after the date and I haven’t texted her or heard from her either.
Is this a dead end or whats the best strategy here?



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Well, you might have hit the point of no return but there's no way to tell. You need to take initiative to text her and make another meet happen. If she's interested, she'll text back. You don't want to wait for the girl to take the initiative. Because you'd be waiting for a very long time
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@avilench I hit her up today with a callback about ghosts (she said the place she works is haunted) but no reply. I was gonna wait til Sat then try again but id be double texting at that point