Combating Needy feelings
What do you guys do when you start feeling needy and feel like you've lost "the touch" so to speak? As in at one point your text game was strong and then you start feeling needy all of a sudden and you don't know how to carry a conversation because you are too outcome-focused
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I think it has to do with me not being very excited in my current season in life and this affects my "flirty" side if you will. When I feel like this I usually go back to what is comfortable to me in conversation and get in logical conversations; if I do try to get flirty in this frame I feel like I am trying too hard and I end up not doing anything until I get back to a more exciting frame of mind.
It's not like when I am in the "zone", when flirting comes out naturally and without thinking it twice, I get numbers one after the other when I am in this frame/mindset and conversation is fun and easy
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Well, you gotta examine why you're feeling needy all the sudden. Their should be some kind of catalyst for this change in your mindset. Are you overstressed with work? Did you just go through a breakup? Once you can figure out the root cause, then you can generally figure out a solid game plan. The good news is that if you were good once, it'll be a lot easier for you to get good again, compared to starting from scratch.
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Hey man, thanks for the response. I was able to get back on the "groove" of things. The reason that I felt that way is that I stopped the work, meaning I wasn't texting or messaging any girl for a couple of days and just kept to myself and got rusty and lost my sense of abundance for a bit. I just started messaging a bunch of girls on dating apps and some that I have their number to get off the scarcity mindset and get me back in my flirty mode. It is true when they say Action cures fear, but in this case, Action cures scarcity.
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Definitely, generally the more action you take, the better you will feel about a situation.
395 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Generally the more action you take, the better you will feel about a situation.