Cold approach chick situation

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I met this chick through a cold approach and took her on an instant date which was a coffee date for about an hour, she was talking about 80% of the time she is a very talkative girl, but the date was ok after I left, I texted her some basic texts "did you make it home safe" she was quite responsive, the next day I called her at night we talked for about 30 mins she was down to meet up for the next day but I wasn't feeling it I told her maybe till Thursday, at the same night I sent her a reel on Instagram then I unsent it, I thought was kinda not so funny and the next day after that we had another call for about 4 mins she made a big deal out it that I unsent a message and told me I'll call you back but she never did. 3 days later sent her a text and then she called me and started telling me about her problem and she needed a certificate from a doctor because she had an exam she came late (because here you can get them if know some people) sounds like she just wants me to fix her problem (but I didn't care about her BS), now whenever I ask her to meet up she tells me "it depends whether I'm free or not I'll let you know when I have nothing to do" like I have nothing to do in my life and just waiting to meet her, and couple times was texting her and sending her audio messages and she responds with some audio messages just mocking my voice or laughing at me which kinda pissed me off but I didn't show any kind of reaction. Today she was coming to meet her friend who lives in the same city where I live I told her maybe you can me meet me when you come here she said she's going to be busy with her friend (clearly she doesn't see me as a valuable option in her eyes based on her behavior.
btw she is 18 yrs old maybe that's why she's acting childish sometimes. I'm 22
So what do you guys think just move on and never talk to her again since she playing those weird games because that's what I'm thinking rn

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I would have just probably told her on her phone that I'm not interested in helping with the certificate. I would send a message and keep it to only logistics. No random back and forth

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Thank you alex

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You spent way too much time with her way too early. Ignore her completely. Do not text "did you make it home safe" or anything like that. If you really wanted to meet up with the girl then you should have agreed to the date & time she suggested to you. You 'not feeling it' and rescheduling is completely fine, but know that it runs the risk of you all never meeting up.

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