Hey Alex I believe her concern is that meeting new people makes her nervous, at least that's what she is saying. I know I need to get her to see if that's her real concern then that's a little silly but I'm not sure how to reframe her into seeing this. My idea was sending
“I understand that meeting new people can be a little nerve-wracking, what if we met at a bar first in the public” or “ I understand that meeting new people makes you nervous, did you have a bad experience with someone?”I would be okay with meeting at a bar since there is a bar nearby place. Not sure if there is anything better to say as I don't particularly like either of my ideas but can't think of anything better to say.