Always getting ghosted when going for date (and many times sooner)
I haven't been able to get a single date off of dating apps. I get alright matches, like 1-2 a week (better than I used to).
Of the girls I match with, a decent amount of them don't respond to the first message, another big percentage sends like 1 message then ghosts, and maybe 10% I have a solid conversation with, but when I go for the date I get ghosted. Not sure what I'm doing wrong or if there's any pattern?
Pictures show 13 failed conversations. Most very short, but some long ones. All pics are in order except maya's which is flipped
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so first off your opener for the first girl on missionary retreat was 10/10 imo given her picture. It was funny and can lead you down a lot of sexual / roleplay paths depending on how the girls responds. Well done. I am going to steal that for future similar pics.
Agree with Alex on the closing. Let me give you an example.
For Tian I would have said "you'll have to share one of your favorites with me on our romantic date." after you said "what can I say, I'm a professional story teller."
For Hayne, I would have dropped the earing bit after her LMAFO response and just moved into the next stage of teeing up your date. Options could have been "Good to know you have ambition (with a wink or laughing face so she knows you are joking), how has your day been? (Wild Wednesday etc) Then that would have set you up for the classic "just got a killer workout in, looking sharp for our romantic date reply.
Or you could have said "You'll have to tell me all about these dreams on the romantic date I've planned for us." Then go into the "well do you like wine?" when she responds.
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Hey man. I think the issue really lies in your closing. You're a little haphazard about it. Specifically check out a video I have on 5 steps to setting up a date. I think once you follow those you'll have an incline in dates
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got it thanks!