lets say you make plans with a girl 5-7 days away, how often will you text/call her leading up to the date. i tend to only contact them to confirm plans but should i try to build more comfort along the way? i know guys will "talk themselves out of getting pussy" so once i have the date planned i just play it super cool and only text to confirm 2-3 days away, and again on the day of. is it smart to stay on a girls mind by texting more often? especially if the date was planned for at least 5 days down the road.