Meet a hot asian on Tinder a few months back. We went on two dates in total, the first one out in town and the other back at my place where we hooked-up. I then went on a vacation which lasted about 2 weeks, where we still talked and texted each other. (Oh yeah and my text game was dogshit at this time as well, so it could’ve played into it. I did thankfully keep it kind of sexual). Then after a few days of being home I tried closing her immediately out of nowhere by saying “You can come out here on Friday, if you can?”, which if you have seen one PWF video, you know is terrible way to close (not soft closing, finding a date and that). 3 weeks later we talked a little, and I again tried closing by saying “You can come over this Saturday if you’re interested” like she was some dog, that had to follow MY schedule. She said she’d text me if she could. Never texted (Obviously). So yeah, I try the same approach a week later, where she answers and says that she can’t. I then text her “Text me when your schedule frees up a little”. Doesn’t respond But that’s not the end. No, no, no. I then after a whole month send her this long text, asking her how it’s going and saying that I’d like to get in contact with her again. She responds that she had been a little busy, and that we had fun together so that she would like to stay in contact. I then ask her if she could maybe find a date we could get together (Like a fucking pussy), and she replies with “Sure though I’m quite busy this week”. I then texted her “Yeah sure just text when you’ve got time, no rush”. Doesn’t respond. A month later I AGAIN tried to close IMMEDEATELY by saying “Hey --- Id still love to see you, but this is the last time I’m asking. What do you say we meet sometime next week?”. She response with “It depends. You know with corona and all. But let’s see.” And I, brilliantly, without knowing how to set/change a frame, or dig deeper to find the real issue, respond with “Okay”. As you can see, I made shit ton of mistakes. Not being able to close properly Just simply taking too long to try closing Not knowing how to set a good frame And just overall bad text game This all happened about 1 month ago (Around the time I started watching PWF), and my question to you would be, if this is somehow salvageable? I mean I obviously over-invested way too much. So, I honestly don’t really know where to take it from here. But thanks for reading this, any recommendations/advice would be very much appreciated.

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It's dead. You clearly told her "it's the last time I ask" and closed the door for any possible date by responding "Okay" instead of making a definite date. Whatever you do next, if you reach out again, it would be very needy and contradictory to what you said you'd do. If I was you I'd go no contact, meaning you move on and suppose she'll never reach out again.
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Thank you man. I was thinking the same thing, but maybe not wanting to admit it.
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Yep, just move on brother. Good that you not only recognize your mistakes but seem intent on not making the same ones again.