So long story short I had a plan to meet up with the girl that I met during day game she's a real stage and makes a lot of money and all this stuff and I told her let's grab drinks we'll  grab a margarita she agreed to it that was probably about a week ago maybe 6 7 days ago and now right before we're about to go meet up she's like I'm not in the mood to go  drinking and I told her how about you have a Shirley Temple which is just like a soda type of drink and then she's like asking oh do they serve food this and that and I kind of told her like yeah they serve food but I'm not switching up plans  now when you could have told me a long time ago about that this is literally like an hour before we're supposed to meet up just trying to switch phones and I stuck to my guns and told her like look this is what I want to do I think they have food  there but we're going to go get drinks so don't be acting brand new LOL and that was kind of like the gist of my text so did I do good job what should I do better in the situation when girls trying to switch out cuz this happened already like a couple times in the past week already with two different girls