Back story: I never use OLD. I’m pretty attractive in person, so usually just roll with nightgame which gets me plenty of results. First time on tinder, matched this girl, she’s 18 I’m 20. Moved the convo to text. I generally have a no nonsense approach, so I try to get straight to the point and ask her out. She gives some resistance and a “maybe”. Since this conversation, she has actually messaged me to reignite the conversation, but I don’t know where to lead it - do I just persist and ask her out again, or try to talk to her more and THEN ask her out AGAIN....
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Just call her out
“You don’t sound too confident”
Or if you want to, you can also say
“Let’s turn that maybe into a yes..”
And yes it seems like you gotta just build comfort one more time and then try closing for the date. If she plays hard to get just have patience, gauge her interest and try again in 2-3 days. Long game sucks but the work is always worth it
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Appreciate it bro. I guess I’m just not used to having to wait and play the long game. Other girls I’m talking to rn are so much more invested and fun, this one’s dry af but maybe it’s the age thing.
I’ll just text her normally now, few more questions to get to know her and tease her a little, see if that opens her up some more.
89 Posts (+9), 191 Cmts (+51)
Yup, I do the same. Try to go for the ones who are more invested and interested because they make life much easier. Even Alex says that some girls just don’t respond sometimes. It is what it is. I only play the long game for girls who communicate decently and are absurdly hot. Otherwise just move on. Cheers bro