Opened this girl on Hinge. Trying to vibe with her but she start with shit test. I think I responded as well as I could figure out. But she still playing hard to get and being a bit self depreciating. I honestly don't know if she's waiting my time or if its another Shit test or something else. I don't want to qualify myself, kina feels like that's what she wants? I'm thinking I should call it out with something like: -"Alright "Shy handful" what are you looking for here?" -or "introverted handful, what a combo?" another message "can I be honest with you?" another message after she responds: " I think you got a wild side, and I wanna see it" -"Boy your really bad at this online dating thing huh haha." another message "what are you looking for here then?" I want to get this girl cus dam son shes my type. But if shes a time waster I also don't want to keep going. But she's throwing me off with responding but also saying she's not my type. Suggestions, opinions any help fellas thanks as always.
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Alright, thanks for all the feed back.
I think I was able to navigate this interaction well-ish. Soft closed and she was down. There were days that she messaged in a 24h window.
I asked her what she was looking for earlier and she mentioned some bad relationships. So I used the line about "good things never never come to those that don't take a chance"
This one has been a bit of a handful she has giving me little to work with. But I was able open her up as it were after I got her talking about some of her interest.
She has never asked any "buy in" question of me though.
And though I was cracking jokes and keeping it light she never followed me into the light sided convo. She always seems very serious.
Then she dropped off and finally got back saying it was a rough week. That's where the screen shot picks up.
I'm at the point where I don't even know if we're compatible. She's a shy handful as she said. I don't know if it's my text game (which it might be) or actually her?
I want to know how to handle this kind of objection. As you can see she was very forward with this objection.
Physically she is super my type and if there is a chance, however small that I can salvage this. I want to smash that!
Any suggestion would be welcome.
I actually don't know what to say back.
thanks as always.
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"Not an issue. Shoot me your number and we'll grab drinks. Worse come to worse, you get a free drink out of this"
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It's been my personal experience when girls say this, they are telling the truth but if they weren't interested in you at all, they wouldn't take the time to come tell you this. I always treat comments like this as an invitation to ask them for their number so you can talk off the app. Might as well suggest it because if you don't, it sounds like your opportunity will disappear.