Hey there, so I met this girl of Bumble. Had a pretty good first date, vibed well. she insisted on meeting in public first, grabbed some drinks at a bar, after we went up to the rooftop terrace of my apartment building. Went into my aparment for another glass of wine -> makeout, but from her body language it didn't seem like pushing would have been adequate. texted a lil the days after, some callback humor, tried to schedule another date, she responeded "yea thursday or towards the end of the week could work" (last week) Hit her up with a feeler text at the end of the week -> no response and radio silence since then I believe Alex mentioned in the "stopped responding" video that a call out is adequate if you feel like she is ignoring you on purpose. So I was thinking texting something along the lines of "you can tell me if you are not interested anymore, then i'll stop trying". Cuz I think if I were to hit her up with a meme again or so for some chit chat, it would just be beating around the bush.
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Say: “it’s okay if you don’t wanna do this”
Live your life. The response will come.
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thanks for your input.
also, since i dont wanna make this one too specific to this one girl:
in general, when arranging second dates (and sex hasn't happened on the first one) and the chick is too vague over text and you got this feeling a second date probably wont happen, should one lean more towards the "calling out side"?
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What exactly was your “feeler” text?
Also, remembering how it went and being perceptive of how they were acting is going help in what to do next.
Ghosting and random bratty/sassiness deserve callouts.
The calling out also has to be done properly. The “...i can stop trying” text can be a bit butt-hurt and implies a chasing frame. “It’s okay if you don’t wanna do this” implies sexual undertones “this” and comes off as an easygoing way of showing you don’t care that much which they’ll probably see as a challenge (fear of loss).