Question #1: 1) Should I keep mirroring her response time? 2) Should I call it out? If so, then what do you think of something like "Hey, I understand that maybe you've had some bad experiences in the past being too eager. So maybe this is why we're treating text like email with the response times. If you ever want to just text normally, I'm down for that too ;)" Here's a breakdown of the response time: ME: Sat 4:31pm {1st text after transitioning from Hinge}: (7h 26m) ME: Sat 11:57pm {double text with “🤔”} ME: Sun 11:53am {still not having received a reply, I message her from Hinge} (21h 35m from initial text) HER: Sun 2:05pm (1h 24m) ME: Sun 3:29pm (7h 26m) HER: Sun 10:55pm (23h 49m) ME: Mon 10:44pm (24h 5m) HER: Tues 10:49pm ++++++++++ Question #2: How to reply to her last text (see screen shots): My thinking: ME: I have a better idea HER: what’s that? ME: we split a bottle of wine at my place. No corona crowds, comfortable, warm, wine HER: {corona objection} ME: No need to worry about it with me. I’ve been double vaxxed, plus I already had corona end of November. CDC says almost no chance of me being a carrier
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9 Posts (+2), 21 Cmts (+6)
Thanks for reply. I just watched this video: YouTube > Marni Your Personal Wing Girl: "10 Subtle Signs A Girl Likes You (You’re Probably Missing)" from yesterday (Jan 4, 2022) where she says at 3:26 "She replies properly but takes time...Guys often lose hope or think a girl doesn't like them when she takes a while to reply, but the truth is it might not be that way. You gotta have a look at the quality of the replies to gauge her level of interest. Is she giving you a long, detailed response, or multiple text responses? Is she using a lot of emojis, or GIFs, exclamations? ... Is she exaggerating her words like "rrealllly" and "heyyyy". If yes, then she likes you. At least to some degree. She's responding late, just to give you the impression that she's not an easy target...playing hard to get...additionally, might also be that she doesn't want to appear to forward because she's had bad experiences in the past being too eager. So she's checking your level of interest in her by pulling back and letting you pursue more."
In this case, her replies are multiple texts and pretty elaborate, so I'm guessing she's actually quite interested. Also, I think the corona thing is a real concern with her.
My question still remains, best reply considering the corona thing is a real concern. Also, whether I should keep mirroring her or do a call out. Maybe:
"Hey, I understand that maybe you've had some bad experiences in the past being too eager. So maybe this is why we're treating text like email with the response times. If you ever want to just text normally, I'm down for that too ;)"
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I recommend being more patient and waiting the minimum of 2 days that alex states for her to reply (unless you’ve already made date plans with her and it’s the day of the date)