I met this girl on the way while walking from one park to a place of bars and there i saw this girl in an alley which is full of bars, with my wing. She was with a friend. I teased her a lot and she seemed interested, but quiet indifferent. I mean, she said personally that she looks forward to meet up at the next day. I tried to illustrate the next date because my mission today is only to get solid numbers for day two. I knew in the past that trying to go for day twos from nightgame could be tricky because for a girl's emotion graph in night outs is very unstable with many emotional spikes due to many guys that hit up with them. I don't know why but I tend to reach comfort too soon in nighy because I feel like I don't know how to banter/flirt properly from in a deep way. What should I do then ? I feel like that i fell on the attraction part ( yeah i still believer mystery is right and attraction goes before comfort as it worked dozens of times). Anyway, back to the set. I open the girl and she barely asks questions back. We are standing in front of each other. She doesn't give me anything to work with. At all. At least I felt like it, so I wrote her a dramatic opener because I felt deep down that the set was not solid. They said that they want to continue to a different bar and we talked about regular topics, such as an assumption from my end about her occupation. My friend was with her friend but it felt like that her friend was not also so much into my friend. They are the one who decided to continue eventually . What is your usually formula to text girls on whatsapp after taking their number. It feels like I either rush too fast to schedule day two and thus save her number. My formula is usually, to text her simply my name without nothing, or a mix of a neg and a qualifying spike: "I hope you didn't get lost on your way home because of me" but then I feel like as if I'm getting lost. I have several examples of that. That is totally a weakness point of mine.