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How does respect work with women?
Why do they respect you and what makes them lose respect for you?

Have you ever been in a situation where a girl of yours went from a puppy around you to being full on disrespectful to the point she is calling you a bitch and using condescending tones?

How did you handle it?

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part 2: But her body and tonality was clearly under stress. She did NOT want that dynamic shift. Even though I GAVE her power. She did NOT want it. It would be easy for a guy to think that is what she WANTS or NEEDS. But it's not true. They want you to be stern. Have strict boundaries. Strong frame. A leader. Dominant. They feel far more at ease and happy when they have a man like that.
This girl said some mean shit she had never said. I gave her power and she ran with it. I showed weakness and vulnerability and she kicked me while I was "down".
I was able to regain that respect and go back to normal the next day. But it was super interesting how quickly a girl can completely flip from worshipping you to thinking you're a total bitch. This is why you might've seen me talk about not opening up and showing vulnerabilities. Fuck what other guys say talking about opening up for a connection and showing all these vulnerabilities and weaknesses. It's MOSTLY bullshit. I can have a very happy and healthy relationship without showing any vulnerabilities and having "deep" connections. Radical honest where you express your feelings and cry like a bitch. You may be in long relationships like that. It may work for a bit but inevitably it backfires.
I can test this out on every girl I've had and it will all be the same. The relationship would be worse off. Every. Single. Time.
I've never had a failed relationship because I wasn't vulnerable or weak enough. Or I didn't express all my feelings and give life stories. NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRR.
They want a strong man. They test you for weaknesses. Women will even train you to become stronger (this is subconscious). They will push you to be less of a bitch.
It doesn't mean you cannot have empathy. Of course you should. It's def important. But there's a difference between being empathetic (to a degree) and completely displaying and expressing all your weaknesses, vulnerabilities and emotions. They don't find it attractive or comforting. PERIOD. No matter what they tell you.
It's a fucking trap. It's like when you want truth out of someone and instead of interrogating them you softly open them up. "Hey I won't be mad. You can tell me. I actually would find it funny if it were true! Go ahead and tell me!" -- I've seen detectives do this. Good cop, bad cop to open up the perp to confess.
Don't fall for it. And don't let others tell you otherwise.
Social Prime for example preaches this. Have you met them? Very frail, weak pussies. It's made them complete pussies. And women treat them as such.
Chris' gf is the dominant one in the relationship. He has past trauma and need to be dominated by an older woman. But make no mistake, she is getting side dick. I know his girls do. He likes to frame it as "no we're open! I want that!" but no, he cannot earn their respect and they go for dick on the side with a real man.
You just have to practice their teaching to see this in action. You'll feel like a bitch and be treated as such.

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I have a girl here with me right now. She's submissive. Needy. I am very high value in her eyes. She respects me. She does what I say and need. Like her, women are constantly testing you. Doesn't matter if you're married for years, women never stop. They are programmed to test you. They want to make sure that you aren't a bitch and you still aren't a bitch. They're like children that push the boundaries of the parents to see if they get yelled at. It's never ending. They need rules and they need to respect you. It's dependent on their survival. Women are very similar.
So I decided the last few days to change. What would it take for this girl who worships me to change and treat me like a bitch. Changes in her tonality. All that. This girl really respects me. She is very submissive. She behaves. I thought it would take A LOT to get her to flip it around.
Nope. It took one day. I bitched myself up. I fell into her frames. I apologized. I became slightly needy. At first she said "stop acting" -- because it was a total change in my behavior. It was unlike me. But that day she started treating me totally different. A side of her I had never seen before. First, I felt disgusted. But I wanted to test this out. I was confident I could easily recover from it.
This girl became a fucking savage. She did not hold back. She really pushed my boundaries. Said shit she never said before. Her tonality was like I was a punk bitch.

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