So I number closed a girl a few days ago, and we were setting up our first date. She was being a bit dodgy for a bit do I figured maybe she was nervous. Then she told me we could "meet up at a bar with her and her friends" so it seems she is a bit hesitant which i completely understand and I dont want to come off like I dont respect that. On one hand I could bring friends too maybe we all get something out of it. But on the other, I'm not sure how good an idea that is for a first date. I'll be honest, I'm still a beginner at all this and was just getting the hang of normal dates, so I'm not sure how this would go. The best way to get used to something is to try it though but again I'm just not sure if i should maybe try and push for a one on one date instead. If i should push for one on one, any tips on how to tell her that?

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That's how I see it too. Never liked getting to know a girl around her friends especially at a bar. I haven't answered yet, but I think I'm going to go for a one on one

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I would say something like I would love to meet your friends but first I’d like to get to know you better

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That's not bad, I definitely was thinking of going in that direction and implying that while that sounds fun first i want to get to know her better first

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