Hi @avilench . This is from a girl I approached on a Hollywood Nightclub dance floor and made out with within 5 mins of talking. We met up on a 2nd date about 5 days later with more kissing and holding hands. That was back in Feb this year, but she said she was down to hangout again. I suggested we go to another venue with our group of friends (she agreed back in March). She's been busy lately and just got back from the Grammy awards show from Las Vegas. I was texting her last night to see if she was still down to see a DJ Friday night, but it's unclear to me at this point. I'm also not sure if I was slightly sexual on my last text and if that was too much too soon (even though we kissed before). After looking at our last text convo how should I follow up with her? I was thinking of saying, "Just kidding about the back/booty massage lol. What artist were you working with though?" or "What artist were you working with by the way?". I'm not sure if I need to tell her if I was just joking, I hope she got the joke. Also she isn't a fan of Exchange LA from what I heard from our prior conversations, but she likes Snakehips (DJ). I was thinking of re engaging within a day or 2. She might have plans Friday idk. What about voice memos or a short phone call. I hate overthinking this. How should I handle this? Thanks!

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I can see that. This was from last Friday, so the event ended. Do you think the "professional back/booty massage" text was too sexual? I was going to follow up with "What artist were you working with?"

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Yes. Plus also way too long of a message after that. Just re-engage her at this point

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