What's happening guys I have posted a pic from yesterday here, and I want to know what my current SMV is. On apps, I only swipe on girls im attracted to. At the end of the day, a lot of my matches still end up being below my standard (after I dive deeper into their profiles). I currently am looking for a partner. I want kids, and am being incredibly selective as to who I am expending energy with. I think I am good looking, but it seems the apps don't necessarily agree. Wheat waffles gave me a 4/10, but that focuses strictly on the face. With the effort I put into my physique and personal/professional/emotional development (even though that doesn't factor into SMV), I think I am much higher than a 4. The majority of my matches and dates are with girls who I would consider 6s. I will at times match with 7s and higher, but often I am struggling to get a ton of investment from these types. My pictures could use an update, but I want to see if you all think that it makes sense to hire a photographer now, or if I should continue to work on the physique and hire one later. I'm very open to the idea that online apps aren't going to work for me. I get matches on Feeld, because I am experienced and I believe that there is a bit more leeway on that app for attractiveness, if you can express your kinks well, and you know how to own that shit. I live in the Bay, and competition is up there. There's just a lot of men. Honest assessment and suggestions for improvements would be great. Thanks in advance boys!
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Ok. These look like successes to me. My only feedback is I don't like "good girl's and I don't like the g rated options you spell out in the long texts on 12 and 13 , I think "no expectations " should cover it without those back outs I would say.
My success doesn't matter to anyone but me lol. I'm anonymous and even if I wasn't nobody gives a shit about my sexual success. My intent was to convey the game and frame I operate in, which has worked well lately and I won't go on. I hope you'll stop focusing on a blackpill perspective of your SMV and look at your SMV more on game/frame and most importantly you being always at cause bro, you can always create the results you want - Owen Cook is a great example of this. I mean, what's his SMV in the context of your original post above? Do you understand where I'm coming from? I know it's easier said than done but I hope you know your value is higher than these totally basic chicks with their makeup and fake social media accounts....and at our age man - they're fucking single mothers bro. Single mothers. Think about the judgement, the character, the drama, the attachment and lack of freedom...you are so far above and beyond that in terms of value and I hope you know that and never seek validation from these deeply flawed, shallow creatures.
I'll stop cause May be my perspective isn't helpful but that's the best feedback I can think to offer. Good luck man
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No, I hear you. I am trying to mold myself into someone who anyone would be happy to have, because it gives me purpose to improve. I will always have other partners, but I want to lock down someone I am crazy attracted to eventually start a family. I am also intent on setting my expectations reasonably. If swiping isn't the way I'm going to land a long term 7 or 8, then I would like to know now, so that I can focus my efforts elsewhere. I don't particularly follow any of the "pills", but I know it's competitive for men online. I'm happy with my text game, and I'm happy with my performance on dates, as I genuinely feel confident and desirable to women, and they can smell that on me. There is definitely room for improvement in both these areas, but I am more focused on my passions. I am just wanting to take a pragmatic view as to whether or not online apps are a good way for me to meet that person for the long haul. Thanks for your input.