Hi Alex and PWF community, greatly appreciate you all and learning a lot from your texting content! In 2023 I met this very cute Asian girl on Bumble. Managed to get her out on date, had drinks, vibed and she even kissed me at end of date. Second date I managed to get her over to my place. After cooking us some food - I went for the close and banged the hell out of her. Best sex I ever had, small Asian body, tight pussy, surprisingly big tits and she even choked me back. After sex we were cuddling in bed. I was bantering with her and made (what I think) was a very obvious joke about her having to leave. She got up and started dressing her clothes. At first I thought she was messing with me but she was serious...I managed to calm her down, convince her I was joking and made her open up. Turns out she had some trauma from an ex-boyfriend who dumped her in the middle of having sex. I expressed sympathy, we cuddled some more and then I banged her again the next morning. I figured this issue was dealt with. Around 12 hours after she left I sent her my first text. I feel like she slow faded on me but I def made some bad texting mistakes as well (see screenshots). As you can see, she kept referring back to trauma so couldn't get her to see me again. My questions to Alex/PWF community are twofold: What mistakes did I make with texting and how/what should I have texted her instead to get her out for next date/hookup? I have been single since last few weeks. I know common wisdom says you shouldn't reheat leftovers but the sex with her was too good for me not to try and re-engage again (nothing to lose right). So that's what I did, texted her after 1.5 years (last screenshot), trying to make her remember some good memories. When she didn't reply, I double texted her the funny Asian guy talking to a wall GIF after 4 days. Still no response (20 hours later). What do you guys think? Is this situation salvagable? What would be an appropriate triple text in case she doesn't respond within the next week? Looking forward to your advice! Best wishes from C

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This one is dead. Not sure why you tried setting up a call with her. Once you bang you should just be making plans to meet again in person. I think you just came on a bit too strong here
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Thanks for your reply Jimmy. In 2023 I did not yet implement PWF strategy, I agree the call was unnecessary. In what way did I came on too strong? Just by trying to call her? Or did I do more things that made me come on too strong?
And are you saying triple text is waste of time or should I just go for it without any expectation?
35 Posts (+2), 150 Cmts (+63)
No worries, live and learn. I just think you are over investing a bit. I wouldn’t have sent that big paragraph so soon, that is more of a Hail Mary/last resort type of message.
The triple is your call at this point. Alex usually is around once a day, wait and see what his thoughts are