This was from my last trip to Medellin (about 10 months ago) and is an amazing story for a variety of reasons (Two minute daytime interaction that led to the girl coming over a few days later "for wine” and was DTF from the get go). To start off, I met this chick literally several hours after landing in Colombia on my way to the grocery store. She didn’t speak a word of English and so I had to chat her up in my extremely basic Spanish. The whole convo lasted a few minutes and on the surface, seemed very basic. However, my body language and eye contact was on point and I could tell she was very attracted to me Over the next few days, we texted a lot back and forth (All screenshots included, along with a translation in English at the bottom). She was investing a lot and I could tell she was into me. Since it’s Colombia, I didn’t go super sexual (Reasoning and overall strategy explained in this article: https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-message-on-tinder-latin-america-edition/). Instead, I kept the fun and flirty vibe going and closed with a wine date for straight to my place She flaked on me once (some weird drama). I did a little bit of a takeaway and she asked me to please reschedule. We did. And the following night, she came over. She looked even better than when I met her. Women in Colombia will really go out of their way to make themselves as gorgeous as possible if they like you. Super feminine. I gave her a confident hug and led her straight to my room. Inside, I poured us both a glass of wine and we sat on my bed. As expected, she was a bit shy. But, her eyes were filled with desire. It felt almost like a porno. She had this “I want to get fucked” look that really turned me on. A few minutes later, we were making out. Then, 5 more minutes and we were humping each other through our clothes. Her tits were amazing. However, when I try to take her pants off, she would stop me. It took all of my broken spanish to figure out that she was on her period and felt embarrassed to have sex because of that, even though she really wanted it. This is a very easy concern to address, if you know what you’re doing. You just have to assure the girl that you could care less and will not judge her one bit. The language barrier made this a little difficult, but after 10 more minutes, she asked if she could use my shower to clean up. And I happily obliged A few minutes later, there’s a gorgeous big titty Colombian girl standing in front of me in nothing but a towel. I pull her in and fuck her every which way. She wound up sleeping over and we spent the night alternating between listening to Colombian music and having kinky sex. Good times in Medellin Holy fuck, why was this so easy? If you’ve never been to Colombia, you may have this question. Hot 18 yo from a 2-minute extremely basic conversation that you randomly meet on the way to the grocery store come straight to your place for wine and is eye fucking you within a minute of walking in. Yes, shit like this happens in America as well, but I’d venture to say not nearly as much as in Colombia. The main factor is that as an American/European your SMV receives a substantial boost when you’re in South America. If you are a 6, you become an 8. If you’re an 8, you become a 10. It’s almost like snapping your fingers and becoming jacked. As a result, the amount of interest you get from girls also significantly increases However, All that potential won’t do you much good if you can’t convert it into lays. This comes down to two things: The fundamentals (Good body language, strong eye contact and other non verbal sub communications) and understanding the cultural differences (need for simplicity, massive slut shaming, etc). Then, it's not too hard to calibrate your game accordingly to avoid making silly “gringo” mistakes. For more detail on this, I’m going to be releasing my much overdue “How to Get Laid in Colombia” video next week. Make sure to check it out :) PS: 99% of my text game was Google translate Quick translation of text screenshots: Me: “Alex, Handsome white guy” Her: “Yes, you are handsome” (Sends a bunch of pics) Me: “Cute :)” (Send a pic of myself) She: “Wow. You are very cute” Me: “Thanks. We’d make a cute pair” She: “Yes love.” She: “What do you do in your life?” Me: “For work or for fun?” She: “For both” Me: “For work, I have a marketing business. For fun, I travel, go to the gym, seduce cute colombian girls..." She: “Very nice my love” She: “And how many girl friends do you have” Me: “Zero, I’m a shy virgin” She: “Serious please. Are you seriously a virgin? How old are you?” Me: “Haha no. I’m 28” She: “Good love. I think I just saw you in a taxi” Me: “Haha no. I am walking now. Must have been another handsome gringo” She: “My love in Taxi I think” (Didn’t really make much sense, so I move past it) Me: “Do you like wine?” She: “Yes. I like it” Me: “We should split a bottle of wine sometime” She: “Yes love, when?” Me: “How is Wednesday night?” She: “Yes love” Me: “Perfect ;)” (She sends me a bunch of random memes) Me: “Hey cutie” Her: “How’s it goin?” Me: “I have the wine” (Along with a picture of me holding a bottle of wine, non chalantly showing off my tattoo which chicks seem to love) Her: “Wow. How cute. My love. Today is impossible” Me: “Breaking my heart” Her: “I want to drink wine with you, but one of my friends’ mom is sick in the hospital right now” Me : “It’s okay my live. I understand. I hope everything goes well” Her: “Thank you my love. Possibly tomorrow or the next day, we will have that bottle” Me: “Yes, tomorrow in the evening is good” Her: “Yes” (sends me a random video and I clarify about it) (Next day, I send her a voice memo in spanish telling her good morning Her: “Hey, my day is good. And you love?” Me: “See you tonight?” Her: “Hey love. I’m feeling a little down Me: “One of my famous massages will solve that" Her: “My love. It is very cold in my apartment. And I am very tired. Can I please come over tomorrow night instead? It will be so much better if we meet up tomorrow. What is your address?” Me: “We will have a good time” (I send her my address) Her: “Yes love. Thank you” Me: “Good night love” Me: (Open the next day with the Ryan Gosling meme) Her: “Hey love” Me: “What time are you free tonight?” Her: “I can do 7. Do you want me to stay over or come back home. What would you like” Me: “Let’s see how the night goes” (Rest is pretty much logistics)

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Her: “Hey love. I’m feeling a little down
Me: “One of my famous massages will solve that"
If she wasn't as invested as she was, could our response be "too thirsty" or is it quite a typical response you'd send if we she had already agreed to come over (which I guess is pretty invested moved) and was not feeling well?
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I would say it's definitely one of my standard responses, if a girl gives me a soft reason like that. If she said something more like "Hey. My grandma is dying and I'm at the hospital", then I wouldn't say anything about the massage obviously. I think it's okay to attempt to push past soft/token excuses. Some girls will get turned on by your persistence and come over. The key is to know when to take a step back and realize that it's not going down. Persistent, but not desperate/needy