As my first date left (see earlier break down), another Hinge girl texted me out of the blue. Been trying to get her out. Been following Alex's instructions- patient, playing it cool. And bang, out of the blue she texts. Yessssss. She is in my bed sleeping right now. I used the same texting pattern, cause it works. Big game changers for me that I learned from PWF is to go slow, be patient, be persistent, yet not needy, don't push too hard for the meetup. Thank you Alex, you are the man! Just want to mention, I sent this girl an Uber. It was already 10:30pm and I didn't want her to flake. Also, I take girls out and get them Ubers all the time.
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16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)
Thank you.
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Good deal... Notice you do more of meeting chicks at your spot... Do you find that better than having come to your place? But I think after texting over time girl is more comfortable coming to your place especially if you are paying for it...
16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)
Last night when we got to my spot at 10:45pm it was closed. I walked her back to my place, no problem. She left this morning. What I find isn't so much that girls won't come to my place, they just don't really want to agree to it. It has to just happen, which I of course orchestrate. Girls will always agree to a spot 1 block from my apartment. I can work with that. Even if the girl is dtf and would have come straight over, there is nothing to lose. We have a drink, vibe, get to know each other, and then I take her to my place. I lead hard in a fun way and never ever tell her where we are going. "My place" are not good words to say to a girl on the first date, from what I have found. I've been doing this date pattern for a very very long time and it brings me the most consistency. Also, consider my texting is far from advanced. I usually lose girls when I try to get them straight over. I like going out with girls and having a drink or two and also many times food. Plus I'm better in person.