I always get LMR even though I kiss, touch, and verbally escalate with the girl during the date. What would you recommend I do to solve LMR objections? I usually take two steps forward and one step back, but girls eventually tell me they don't like to be touched or have a serious boyfriend.
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How much are you sexualizing before you pull? Does the girl clearly know your intent? Back when I used to follow RSD, I used to run into this problem and I know IndianPE used to as well. It's when you pull a chick using a series of excuses, without ever really establishing a strong sexual tension or even a man to woman vibe. I would venture to say that's probably what's happening.
Whipping your dick out, believe it or not can be a game changer. Back when I was trying to nail down my escalation. I started playing around with it (pun intended) and it worked wonders. I expected that girls would freak out and blah blah blah. However, most of the chicks were actually into it and some that had been giving me nonstop LMR got so horny that we fuck. The main reason, I'm such a fan of this technique for beginner/intermediate is that it helps crush your sub conscious beliefs and fears on escalating. Atleast it did for me and a bunch of my friends.
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On every date or instadate, I sexualize by lightly touching her hands, palm readings, hand size comparing. Then, I use a verbal escalation ladder(light, body part, sexual body part, explicit talk). Then, 1 or 2 light kisses. She usually rejects the second one. Then, I try to pull back to my place with plausible deniability. Most who get to the sex location are super nervous. I'm assuming they fear that we're going to bang. Whipping dick out failed so hard for me one time.
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Yeah, it definitely sounds like you are relying on routines way too much. Personally, I don't do Hand reading or any of that nonsense. Just strong eye contact, good body language, and building a shit load of sexual tension with my words/actions. Every girl I pull on some level knows "what's up?" Which is why I don't often get the "Oh! I just remembered I have a boyfriend" line at the last minute
I used to use all these plausible deniability excuses to pull back in the day when I was just starting out and heavy into RSDs, it would lead to a lot of pulls but my closing ratio was 1 out of 3. I knew something was very off about this and thus change my shit up.