Alex, I'm posting this for you because I can't contact you on FB: So I have an issue of girls randomly unmatching me, and also ghosting my texts once we exchange numbers. I suspect it’s the problem is a combination of 1) me BORING her, and 2) just going straight for the date way too soon. So my question is: do you guys have any go-to “get to know you” type questions you cover BEFORE you try to set up a date? Things that keep her engaged and also builds rapport? I was reading the legendary Jeff Powell's lay reports, and I noticed like 90% of it is improv. He just texts her, and goes off what she says. Like if she says “Downtown traffic has been bad,” he would go off that and tell her about horror stories of traffic when he would drive around the city. He doesn't really follow a "messaging sequence script" - it's more like 99% improv. I don't know man, any help is appreciated here. Any fun, playful, ENGAGING (aka not boring so she ghosts you) type of things you guys text on the very front end of the interaction? @Alex I started something in Evernote, is there anything you would add to this list? Thanks!