There’s four conversations here where I thought there was enough compliance to close. They all seem to be stuck at the same place and I’m unsure why. They’ve all stopped replying at the same line: “Not too far. What’s your schedule like?” Am I being too needy? If so, what would you have said instead in these examples?

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Me: "Yeah pretty swamped too. Free either Sat or next week. Worried I'm too good to be true? haha"
Her: "Ahh it just saves time, we can see if we click"

Suggestion:
"I prefer getting to know someone in person. We can meet at a bar nearby first if it makes you more comfortable"

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Nah you’re not gonna get outta the FaceTime here. I would just do it.

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