Hey man, I posted already in the normal forum the question about me meeting this girl in the gym, banging her after a party and then this nose bleeding shit happend etc. You helped me with the last text but I never got an answer. By chance I saw her on the street and she was like " oh maybe we can have a bear another day" (I dont know if that was just to shit test me and be nice). But at the same day she responded to my story , as attached. So probably she is back on? What would you recommend me to do now? and how should i move it forward?

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J

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https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/no-investment-from-her-for-date2-after-close-at-date-1

That’s the story.

Actually adding up to this:
I was at my friends bar last night for a bit and I see her with another guy. I am sure they saw me as well, she talked to the guy a bit etc and he makes out with her. Afterwards they go back inside another bar. The guy was quite ugh actually haha but whatever.

So the question is, how do I turn this around now?

  • use the invitation from her for the beer and flip it on her even more so she starts chasing?
  • ignoring the fact that I saw them last night and just don’t mention it ever?! Or say something like “I see you have a lot of fun in Lisbon;)” by not judging her as well as I think that wouldn’t be good.

Let me know what you think. Cheers man 👋

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Oo yea. Whether she saw you is a big factor. Wjat do you think is the likelihood? What was the last screenshot of texts between you two?

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J

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Hey! I think she saw me to be fair. The last screenshot is the one from Instagram which I sent here. Basically her replying with 🔥 to my story. That night I saw her then with the guy. Also I saw her yesterday at the gym and we had a chat were I just didn’t talk about the fact the I saw her etc. And at night I bumbed into her again for a minute when she was just taking an Uber. So yeah I think that’s the whole story now haha

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